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We just got a dementia diagnosis

What to do in the first month, and what can safely wait.

Quick answer

Slow down: very little has to be decided this month, but three things are worth doing now: learn which type of dementia it is, complete legal paperwork while your parent can still sign, and connect with free local support through KIPDA at (502) 266-5571.

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What should a Louisville family do in the first month after a dementia diagnosis?

Slow down: very little has to be decided this month, but three things are worth doing now: learn which type of dementia it is, complete legal paperwork while your parent can still sign, and connect with free local support through KIPDA at (502) 266-5571.

Alzheimer's disease, vascular dementia, Lewy body dementia and frontotemporal dementia progress differently and respond differently to medication, so the specific diagnosis shapes what to plan for.

Which legal documents matter most after a dementia diagnosis in Kentucky?

A durable power of attorney for finances, a health care surrogate designation or advance directive, and HIPAA authorizations naming who can speak with doctors are the documents that matter most, and they must be signed while your parent still has capacity.

Kentucky assisted living leases record the resident's advance directive under KRS 311.621 to 311.643 if the resident wants it included (KRS 194A.713(1)(e)). An elder law attorney can also review Medicaid planning, which is much harder after a crisis.

When does someone with dementia need memory care in Kentucky?

Usually when safety at home depends on constant supervision: exit-seeking or wandering, getting lost, leaving appliances on, or behavioral symptoms the household cannot manage; in Kentucky that means a community with an Assisted Living Community with Dementia Care (ALC-DC) license and a secured unit.

Many people live at home or in standard assisted living for years after diagnosis. When the time comes, Kentucky's rules give families concrete things to check: dementia-trained staff only on the secured unit, 16 hours of specialized training for direct care staff in their first 30 days, individualized activity plans, and family support at least every six months.

What support is there for Louisville dementia caregivers?

KIPDA's caregiver services, respite through Kentucky's HCB waiver for eligible adults, the region's OIG-licensed adult day health programs, and PACE in Jefferson and Bullitt counties are the main supports, alongside the family-support sessions every ALC-DC must offer residents' families.

Respite works best when it starts before the caregiver is exhausted. See our page on caregiver burnout.

How do we keep a parent with early dementia safe at home in Louisville?

Simplify medications with pharmacy blister packs, add door chimes and stove shut-offs, set up automatic bill pay and fraud alerts, and arrange regular check-ins; KIPDA's ADRC can connect families to in-home services and caregiver support.

Driving is the hardest conversation; a physician's driving evaluation takes it out of the family argument.

At a glance

Worth doing in month oneCan usually wait
MedicalGetting the specific diagnosisChoosing a memory care community
LegalPower of attorney and health care surrogateSelling the house
SupportCalling KIPDA's ADRCMoving out of the home
LearningUnderstanding the ALC-DC licenseComparing memory care prices

Sources include KRS Chapter 194A, 902 KAR 20:480, Kentucky CHFS and DMS pages, CareScout and VA rate tables as cited above; see our editorial standards.

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